Single and happy? Isnt that an oxymoron? The rush to the alter is real, happiness is tied to saying I do and those who haven’t said the sacred vows are banished to the land of misery until the knight in shinning armor turns up and gives us the kiss of life that is marriage…. Marriage is a wonderful thing and…
So here’s the raw,honest to God truth. I’m single and it bothers me. It’s not the type of bother that makes me cry or contemplate my self worth. It’s the type of bother that hits you on a Friday evening when you’d rather be having dinner with that special someone or that creeps up on you when you are planning…
We saw this post on one of our FAV blogs, Single in Gidi and just had to share! There is plenty drama being single in Lagos (or any where else for that matter). Asides from the continual pressure (and prayer) from friends, family, wellwishers and people you met 5 minutes ago to get married there are also various ‘stigma’ issues…
Being a single woman in Nigeria is a tough business. If you are career driven, you are accused of driving men away with your ambition, if you require high standards from your suitors, they say you are picky and if you expect excellent work ethics from colleagues they say you are bossy. Alas! Who can set us free from the…