So before I proceed with the usual banter that accompanies my vlogs, I guess I should say two things. The first is, Happy Valentine’s Day! May love always be in your life! The second is a bit of a confession. Although this is a love/relationship styled vlog, I actually recorded it MONTHS ago but for some reason never released. And…
Friendships add to the quality to our lives. Good friends tell us the truth, they make us laugh, keep us entertained, keep our secrets and help us stand when we can’t. Learning to celebrate our friendships and the roles they play in our lives is important. Over the years, I have made lifelong friendships and have seen just how important…
Ambition is still seen as a dirty word when it comes to women. Many times women feel dragged between two competing sides- ambition and family. we feel guilty when we choose the former instead of the latter. In today’s Vlog, Valerie shows us that it is ok and infact ‘normal’ to want more when it comes to our careers. By…
Hello and a Happy New Year! yes I know its been more than a minute since our last episode. Omo this vloging life is NOT for kids! But hey no complaints this is what I signed up for so here’s hoping for a more consistent 2017! I actually recorded this video late last year but I think relaionship topics are…
Living with intentionality has kind of become a buzz word. We tell people ‘be intentional about your life’, ‘live purposefully’, ‘know your purpose’…but we never really talk about what that means. This year, one of my resolutions was to be more intentional about my life. I’ve discovered that being intentional isn’t only about following after your dreams but about deliberately…
Hello guys- Sorry for the radio silence…you know how it is! But we are back with more discoveries on life and love! Today’s video features 4 or more things Fela Durotoye taught me on purpose and relationships. I learnt these lessons from Mr. Durotoye during during a recent TFD Mentoring Series, where he taught on finding your voice. I think…
Recently Meagan Good and her husband Devon have been on the news for all the right reasons. Their book, titled ‘The Wait’ in which they discuss how being celibate was key in their relationship, has been a success but more so have their personal appearances and talks on relationships, marriage and God. What we love most about this couple is…
Anyone who knows me, knows I LOVE me some Oprah. It has nothing to do with her being one of the richest and most influential women of our time but more to do with how she speaks from a place of authenticity. If there is one thing successful people always say, is there is nothing wrong with failing and in…
Whoever said love is blind probably was referring to how we miss with flashing neon do not enter signals that surround a potentially dead end relationship. But somehow, we fashion love out into a thick blind fold and proceed without counting the costs of our decisions. In this video, I highlight some of the potentially dangerous pitfalls we can miss…
This one is for the men dem! Honestly, us Nigerian women are not complicated. I can already see the men shaking their heads. But really most of us are quite simple and straight forward. I have had several conversations with my male friends where they complain about their wives, girlfriends etc and it takes me less than 5 minutes to…
